Improving communication as a couple: practical advice

A couple with a healthy communication

Communication plays an essential role in any relationship, especially within a couple. Healthy communication is the key to a solid, fulfilling relationship. However, problems often arise, which can lead to tension and, in the longer term, jeopardize the relationship. In this article, we’ll give you some practical advice on how to reduce communication problems within your relationship. If you encounter persistent difficulties, don’t forget that Clinique GO™ offers online social work services with qualified social workers who can help you, including couples therapy services.

Clinique GO™ services to support couples

Our team includes experienced social workers who offer online consultations tailored to the needs of couples in difficulty. These social workers, meeting virtually, can work with you to resolve your relationship problems. If, despite your best efforts, difficulties persist, you can take advantage of the couples therapy services offered by our social workers. Their expertise in this field can go a long way towards improving your relationship and overcoming the obstacles you face.

5 practical tips for improving communication within your relationship

  1. Be a good listener: actively listen to your partner, paying full attention to what he or she is saying. This means being mentally and emotionally present, without interrupting or judging. Show empathy and validate your partner’s feelings to encourage open and honest communication.
  2. Choose the right time: select a suitable moment to discuss problems or concerns. Avoid stressful or tense moments when emotions are running high. Instead, choose quiet, intimate moments when you can concentrate fully on your conversation.
  3. Speak using “I”: use language in a personal way, using sentences beginning with “I” rather than “you”. This allows you to share your feelings and experiences without accusing or blaming your partner. For example, say “I feel neglected” rather than “You never pay attention to me”.
  4. Put yourself in the other person’s shoes: try to understand your partner’s point of view and put yourself in his or her shoes. Cultivate empathy by recognizing that everyone has their own feelings, needs and perspectives. This mutual understanding will foster more respectful and constructive communication.
  5. Avoid mixing issues: when addressing a problem, avoid mixing different situations or concerns. Stay focused on one subject at a time, and don’t let built-up frustrations resurface during a discussion. This will enable you to tackle problems in a more focused way and find constructive solutions.

 

By following these practical tips, you can reduce communication problems and strengthen your bond with your partner. Remember that Clinique GO™ has a team of qualified social workers ready to support you in your difficulties, through online consultations. Don’t hesitate to call on Clinique GO™ to benefit from their professional support. They are there to help you with any social issues you may be facing, whether as a couple, a family or an individual.

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Président et physiothérapeute depuis 1994.
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